Choosing a relationship partner is not something you should take lightly. It can be rather emotionally taxing when you risk a lot for someone and end up with a failed relationship anyway.
But such failures mostly happen when you do not know what qualities to look for in a partner. While many guys subscribe to the idea that the higher the number of attempts, the higher the rate of success, this is not entirely correct. There are other things you can do without wasting your time experimenting with different partners just so you can find the right one.
As a dating coach, I’ve dealt with many people who had issues finding the right partner. Here are some tips you can use so you can be better at choosing a relationship partner.
Attraction is important
One of the biggest mistakes guys make is to lower their standards. They often sell themselves short and in the process, put themselves in bad spot. Before you approach a woman, be sure that you are really attracted to her. When you are not attracted to this person, your motivation to give your best to her will also be affected. It is simply a losing proposition on your end, and on your partner as well.
Connection is key
Looks have limited value because physical attraction is not going to last. You cannot go in a relationship by just staring at a gorgeous girl right? Sooner or later you need to connect at a deeper level, to share each other’s dreams, and to play bigger roles in each other’s lives. Attraction is the first requirement, but connection is just as important. Without it you have nothing to connect to the other person and you will end up wasting each other’s time, even barring each other from meeting the right person.
In order for a relationship to succeed, mutual respect needs to exist between the two of you. This is different from just having aconnection because you know that over time both the good and bad qualities of that person will be revealed. How much does she respect your privacy? And how important is it for you to respect her privacy? How far will you go in giving up your personal comfort to accommodate hers and vice-versa? Respecting each other is the key to longevity of a relationship.
If you have these 3 requirements in your relationship then there is no doubt that you have found the right partner.